It doesnt matter if you are dating, engaged, married, married for 20 years - if you meet someone you like better than the one you are with - you should be with them and do what you can to be with them.
Titles mean nothing. People cheat, have affairs, get divorced. What you are calling the person you are with does not change how they feel or their actions in the future.
And, on the surface, that sounds like a jerk thing to say to someone up front.
But - Honest.
There is logic in honesty.
I was young the first time that I heard it - when going steady was a big deal and meant you were off limits. Some of us even had "promise rings". Promise rings? How many people decided that they were not going to take action upon the feelings of their heart because of a cold peice of metal around your finger that was bought by someone else?
There is stength in a couple that stays together because each and every day - they WANT to be together. Not because the church or the state say they HAVE to be together.
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